When I burn a DVD in VW, it automatically replays in whatever DVD player I put it in. Is there a setting I can make before the burn to control this?

You mean the movie just keeps on looping (plays again after it ends)? Did you create a project with "DVD, no menu"? If so, that will be the behavior when you play it.

See if the diagram in this post and the discussion in the thread could be of help to tell what action to do after playing a movie during the creation of the project.