trying to remove roxio it doesnt show in the UNINSTALL PROGRAMS list and i cant delet it help

I'm guessing that you're actually trying to remove Easy Media Creator 9, since you've posted here.

Use these instructions for removing and then reinstalling the software. Just do what removal parts you can, and don't do the reinstall unless you want to.

The instructions are different depending on your operating system.
HERE is the version for XP, and
HERE is the version for Vista.

Brendan gave you the absolute best way of doing the uninstall. If you are afraid of messing with your registry:

You might also try to remove the program using Revo Uninstaller in the moderate mode. If it is not listed, it may be half way installed/uninstalled. Try using Microsoft's Installed Clean up Utility.